Dear Jim, thank you for looking at my problem so seriously . I have forwarded your post to my ISP. I use a small but very good ISP run by a single person in the Netherlands. He allows all the features , is cheap and has excellent support . He wrote me an email yesterday about your serverload. I have asked him for the best solution for the problem we faced. I don't want to experiment and cause problems on his server again.

Will let you know the outcome!